I’m single and I don’t pursue sexual contact with anyone because I have PTSD and intense social phobia. A lot of people are single and don’t engage in sex for long periods of time for a variety of reasons. That doesn’t mean sex and sexuality are unimportant. I’m still gay. And I still enjoy and celebrate my attraction. I wish things had been easier for me. And I wish I had been braver when I was young. It makes me so happy when young men refuse to be restrained and let their homo fires flame proudly and openly.